Have you ever noticed how one small moment can change your entire day? A stranger smiles at you, and somehow you feel lighter for the next few hours. Then, on another day, someone ignores you or speaks harshly, and that single moment keeps replaying in your mind long after it has happened. The interesting thing … Continue reading The Mirror and the Window
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Finding Balance Between Self and Others
Many of us grow up learning to ask, "What will others think?" before asking, "What do I think?" In some cultures, this habit is strongly encouraged because social acceptance is closely linked to belonging, respect, and identity. Over time, however, this can create an unhealthy pattern where we become experts at understanding everyone else's needs … Continue reading Finding Balance Between Self and Others
Conditional Acceptance of Death
It is not uncommon to hear people say something like this: “If I found out I was going to die soon, I think I’d be okay—because I’ve lived a good life.” At first glance, this sounds like acceptance. It conveys calmness, even wisdom. It suggests that peace with death is possible if one has lived … Continue reading Conditional Acceptance of Death
In Search of Myself – Intro/One
I’ve become so lazy that I don’t even feel like typing anymore—so I’m recording this instead, to talk about my life. I wanted to be famous. Truly famous. I used to dream of being someone like Einstein. I wanted to be proud of myself. I wanted to show off my abilities. I craved people’s praise. … Continue reading In Search of Myself – Intro/One
Finally!
What haven’t I done to understand what life really is!At times, I searched for different kinds of feelings, and at other times, I ran away from them. The purpose was simple: to enjoy life, keeping it free from pain. During this time, I travelled freely across the earth—whether necessary or unnecessary, it never mattered much. … Continue reading Finally!
Who’s Observing?
Even if no one else is watching, I am observing myself—unless I’m asleep or dead. The idea of a constant observer is fundamental to everything that exists. As a result, everything easily becomes relative, depending on who is observing. But what does this mean for our everyday lives? More importantly, how can this understanding help … Continue reading Who’s Observing?
The Gift of Mortality: How Embracing Death Can Transform Life and Society
People often question my enthusiasm for discussing death. Some suggest I should focus more on life, emphasizing positivity and optimism. But is that truly the right approach? Is there nothing constructive or life-affirming to be found in contemplating death? I firmly disagree. Understanding death is, in fact, essential for living a meaningful and balanced life. … Continue reading The Gift of Mortality: How Embracing Death Can Transform Life and Society
